One of the greatest things about being a writer is meeting other writers, and feeling inspired by them.
At a meeting of the Inland Empire Writers’ Club, I met Libby Grandy. I was doing a talk about using social media to build your author platform, and Libby had a keen interest. Turns out, she was published and actively marketing her work, and wanted to learn more. She defied the ageist stereotypes that say otherwise. She inspired me, so I asked if she’d like to talk with us here at AST. Here are my questions in bold, and her responses. Enjoy.
Is writing something you wanted to do all your life, but couldn’t due to work pressures? And if so, how did you keep the dream alive during your career years?
During my career years, I wrote whenever I could, most often late at night or on weekends…In all honesty, however, it was never a dream of mine to publish my work. I believe many writers write a long time before thinking about publishing their work. At least that was true for me…I took a writing class at Mt. SAC in my late forties. When the teacher gave me an A+ for a short story, I was stunned. The first novel I attempted to write was actually based on the character in that short story, Lydia. It became the second book years later in the Haverford Trilogy. I didn’t even think about publishing until I retired. Writing was simply something I enjoyed doing.
What is your writing routine? What does your typical day look like?
I write on my laptop, propped up on my bed, in our bedroom. I can envision myself at ninety in the same spot as long as my fingers still work. (My husband suggested that it might be good if my brain was also working.)
If I’m writing a novel, I try to write a few hours each morning. I read the last few pages of a chapter written the day before and then begin the new chapter. In the afternoon I read and edit what I’ve written—if I have time. When I’m not working on a novel, I write whenever I feel like it. One thing I do that may be different from some other writers is write a scene when it comes to my mind, such as dialogue between my characters. Later I insert it at the appropriate place. (LMS: what a great tip.)
What is your greatest challenge vis-à-vis the writing life, and what gives you the greatest satisfaction? Is there a particular high point you’d like to tell us about?
One day I received a call from a lady that the magazine she worked for, Mature Living, wanted to publish my article entitled, “Who is that Old Woman in the Mirror.” We had a wonderful conversation about my article. She said they sat around a table listening to someone read it and nodding their heads in agreement as I talked about the process of aging. The ensuing published article was beautifully formatted and even had the title on their cover page. Of course, seeing my books in print for the first time was special and wonderful (and) gave me the encouragement I needed to see myself as a “writer.” Before I just thought of myself as someone who loved to write. (The article is on my website.)
I suppose my challenge, like most writers, is marketing. Writing is fun. Marketing . . . not so much.
Now that you’ve written four books in four years what is your secret to productivity?
That is something I would like to clear up. I didn’t write a novel a year and then publish it. I edited novels I had already written. I did some major rewrites and added many scenes but didn’t create from scratch. For example, I chose to publish my mystery, Desert Soliloquy, first. I had written it and had it critiqued, but it wasn’t the first novel I wrote.
Right now, I’m working on another novel. It probably won’t be published for a year or two. I’m taking a chapter a week to my critique group (then will) probably query agents and that will take months. If I get one, it will be months more. If he or she is unsuccessful, I’ll self-publish. My suggestion to new writers is: take the time needed to produce a quality product. Don’t rush or write something you feel is commercial and will make you a best-selling writer. Write from the heart. The rest will evolve, as it did for me.
How do you reinforce the craft? Do you take classes, watch YouTube videos, attend writing conferences, subscribe to Writer’s Digest, ???
I consider my critique group and writing friends who read the final drafts of my novels as the best arena for honing my writing skills. We have excellent writers in our group who catch every nuance of a writing scene and make good suggestions. Most of the other avenues, such as conferences, have to do with the marketing process. I continue to educate myself about marketing as it is an ever-changing arena.
What would you say to aspiring writers who want to write but can’t due to current obligations (usually child rearing and/or demanding careers)?
Just write when you can, a few minutes here, a few minutes there. Or write in your journal and lament the fact that you don’t have time to write. It’s cathartic and you suddenly realize that you’ve just written for thirty minutes and could have used those minutes to work on your novel. It’s surprising how much you can accomplish when you write for short periods of time. I would often write a few paragraphs during my lunch time at work.
Who is your typical reader? (or who do you think most appreciates your writing?)
I basically write women’s fiction. Not romance but stories that focus on relationships and how the characters evolve through their experiences. My mystery, Desert Soliloquy, is more mainstream but the protagonist is a woman…I have a fan who lives in India that I met when he visited his son in California. He found my book in a local library, loved it and had his son contact me. We met for lunch, and he told me that after reading my novel, he understood better how women think. We keep in touch by email. He is also a writer, but his books in India are written in Hindi. He hopes to translate one into English and send it to me. I also have male readers who like ghost stories like Promises to Keep.
Do you use social media to build your platform? If so, which network(s) do you enjoy using the most?
I use Facebook, Twitter, Linked-In, my website and my blogs. Whenever I post, there is always a link to Amazon and my books. I enjoy Facebook the most. Writers should remember that everything they post online will show up on Google. If you type the words Libby Grandy in Google, you will find most of my writing, interviews, etc. Social media is a vast arena for writers. That is why writers should brand their name, not their books. Who is the world is going to remember the title, Desert Soliloquy (or be able to spell Soliloquy)? But they just might remember the two words—Libby Grandy.
Libby’s last words on the topic:
I sincerely believe we writers are blessed. We are able to get our thoughts, factual or imaginary, down on paper for others to read. Readers may be inspired or comforted or just entertained. What could be more satisfying? Having said that, I also believe that a writer does not have to be published to experience deep satisfaction.
That comes from simply writing.
LIBBY’S BIO:
Libby and her husband, Fred live in Claremont, California. They have two daughters, three granddaughters, and five great-grandchildren. She retired from the Dean of Students Office at Claremont McKenna College. Before CMC, Libby was employed at General Dynamics in Pomona, California, acting as a liaison with state colleges and universities. She also worked several years as a consultant, conducting workshops on Behavior Modification and Stress Management.
Libby facilitates a weekly critique group and belongs to the Inland Empire Branch of the California Writers Club. Her novels are available on Amazon: The Haverford Trilogy (Promises to Keep, Lydia and True Abundance), as well as a mystery set in the high desert (Desert Soliloquy). Libby is presently working on her new novel, The End is the Beginning. The link to her website and blog is www.libbygrandy.com, and her twitter handle is @LibbyGrandy.
Lynne here: When I was a younger person, I despaired of ever following my writing dream, but I was still drawn to writing. So I took Saturday and night classes, subscribed to Writer’s Digest magazine, and wrote a hundred first chapters of never-to-be-published novels. When I could finally chase my passion in earnest, I had ideas and skills that would not have happened otherwise. Libby did the same. So for everyone, there is a message in this post: don’t give up. Keep at it. Life is about more than duty, work, obligation, and necessity. Save a little part of your heart for dreaming.
Did this post resonate for you? Do you have your own story about never giving up?
Lynne Spreen says
Hi Marian, yes, I see two of them now. Thanks for trying a second time. I know how annoying that can be.
As for being discouraged, here’s a trick I have found to be encouraging: I Google “Famous people age ___”
Since you said you are halfway up the ladder of your seventies, I googled “Famous people born in 1941.” Here is the link: http://www.biography.com/people/groups/born-1941
Many of the folks in this group are still very busy slaying dragons, so feel free to attack your 3rd act with gusto!
Marian Beaman says
The title caught my eye, Lynne and Libby. Now halfway up the ladder of my seventies, I could feel discouraged and “behind” because my memoir is still a WIP. But I refuse to be deterred. After all, I had a long career in academia, and writing you could say is my Third Act.
We’ve recently moved, so I’ve laid my manuscript aside for a while. Today is the day I marked on my calendar to resurrect the chapters and see them with fresh eyes. You may be interested in a blog post I published a while ago about Mary Delany who started her scissor-art career at age 72: https://plainandfancygirl.com/2014/02/05/what-will-you-be-doing-at-72/
Thank you both for fueling my resolve to move forward – with zest! (My first attempt here didn’t appear to publish. Please delete one if there’s a duplicate. Thank you!)
Lynne Spreen says
Hi Marian, yes, I see two of them now. Thanks for trying a second time. I know how annoying that can be.
As for being discouraged, here’s a trick I have found to be encouraging: I Google “Famous people age ___”
Since you said you are halfway up the ladder of your seventies, I googled “Famous people born in 1941.” Here is the link: http://www.biography.com/people/groups/born-1941
Many of the folks in this group are still very busy slaying dragons, so feel free to attack your 3rd act with gusto!
Marian Beaman says
Yes, I’m in the company of Lesley Stahl and Anne Tyler, whose work I adore. Three of her titles survived the purge before The Big Move: Breathing Lessons, St. Maybe, and Back When We Were Grown-ups.
Thanks for the encouragement today, Lynne!
Mary Gorden says
Glad to finally have a role model older than me. Getting four books published in my 70s is a bit of a stretch as my first will be published in October. But it’s now a goal. Thanks for sharing
Lynne Spreen says
That’s the thing, Mary. To serve as beacons for each other. Congratulations on your first book!
Joyce Poggi Hager says
I’m inspired by Harry Bernstein who wrote his wonderful memoir The Invisible Wall when he was in his eighties. He followed that memoir with a few others, published in his nineties!
Lynne Spreen says
Thanks, Joyce. For all who want to check it out, here’s the link: https://www.amazon.com/Invisible-Wall-Story-Broke-Barriers/dp/0345496108
Mary Langer Thompson says
Loved The Invisible Wall. A terrific memoir.
Sunny says
Just what I needed to read this morning. Libby is truly an inspiration! Thanks Lynne for a great interview post.
Lynne Spreen says
My pleasure, Sunny. Wonderful to hear from you.
Still the Lucky Few says
I loved your interview, Lynne! I need to hear stories like hers, about people who are vigorous and successful well into their 70s. It keeps me on my toes!
Lynne Spreen says
Me too, Diane. Inspiration is all around us. Like you for example!
Mary Langer Thompson says
Great interview! And Yay California Writers Club!
Lynne Spreen says
That’s the truth, Mary!
Ginger says
I have been writing since a very young age [10]. That’s over 50 years ago, now. From poetry, to commentary, to short stories. Someday I may publish some of the work, or not. I write to feed my soul, to discover more about me, to give voice to that which opens itself up for examination. I cannot imagine any type of life without pen and paper nearby. My work is for me, not others.
Lynne Spreen says
Ginger, it’s good that you know yourself so well. I think more writers might benefit from your approach. And by the way, I have been filling journals for more than 30 years. I wonder whether I’ll have a big bonfire in my oldest age?
Sandra Nachlinger says
Thank you for this inspiring interview. I clicked on the link to Libby’s “Old Woman in the Mirror” piece and loved that too. You and Libby made my day!
Lynne Spreen says
That’s neat to hear, Sandy. Thanks for saying so, and best wishes with your writing, too.
Kathleen Pooler says
Wonderful interview, Lynne and Libby. “The joy comes from simply writing” resonates the most. I also love the message that it is possible to make you’d dreams come true if you keep writing. Thank you. You are both inspirational!
Lynne Spreen says
Kathy, isn’t it great to enjoy each other’s energy? I get so much from your author interviews, too. Hope you are well and enjoying life.
Donna says
You had me at “she published 4 books in her seventies”. I have been craving information on our different attitude about aging. My mother was finished at 60….finished. I am just starting. I need to read about other women spitting at the typical ideas about getting older. I have to break the mold I have created in my head. Thank you for your thoughtful posts, I always find something to relate to.
Lynne Spreen says
Donna, great to hear from you. I’m sorry about your mom. Some people age faster than others. The scary and yet empowering thing about aging is that we are all over the place! And sometimes I don’t know whether I should speed up, because I’m older, and don’t have all that much time left–or slow down, because I’ve always been a workaholic and now maybe I should relax and kick back a lot…which I don’t really want to do. But am I stupid? This is the eternal question. Then I had the smart idea to find out what famous people are 62 like me, and the answer was downright motivating: Angela Merkel, Oprah Winfrey, Ron Howard, Jerry Seinfeld, Christie Brinkley, Sonia Sotomayor, Yanni. They’re all 62 this year. And I thought, GET CRACKING, LYNNE!!!
Judy Scognamillo says
What a interesting lady and I really like the way she thinks. You did a great job interviewing her, Lynne.
Lynne Spreen says
Thanks, Judy. Libby is an inspiration.